Thu Jan 15 17:34:48 EST 2004
Stayed home from work today because I was sick... and it was a cold cold day--what was it? a big whopping 0F or something? But, it gave me time to reflect on things...
Okay... I didn't come up with anything. But, I did realize that I was neglecting my blog. It's not that I've been busy--it's just that I don't have anything to blog about. So, maybe that means I need to get out more? ... nah. :p
So, this past weekend, I went wedding dress shopping. I went just for fun, hoping one day, I would find that special someone, and get married on October 27th of this year (I already have the venue reserved). HAHA, just kidding. No... one of my friends is getting married--and I tagged along with her and Candy (one of her bridesmaids) on a wedding dress shopping expedition. And, I've come to realize that wedding planning is insane. I do not want to have a wedding. The dress alone takes weeks of trying on and deciding... and then you have location, time, food, invitations, color-scheme, flowers, bouquet, bridesmaid dresses, what your mother is going to wear (one of those awesome sequin tops), what your father is going to wear (the same suit he wore to my graduation--college and high school and my sister's graduation--college and highschool), the millions of people you have to invite, the millions of people you can't invite, the millions of people you don't want to invite (but are inviting anyway for your parents)... and a thousand other things. Just thinking about it now is stressing me out... and I am not even getting married.
SO... most people who know me know my awesome super-processor brain... and know that I have come up with a very simple solution to this whole wedding thing. First of all, I think I'll wear black--I don't even have a white t-shirt or white underwear, why would I have a whole white dress? Second, I think I will simply send out an evite--no invitations, with an online RSVP system. Relatives who don't have email? Well... anyone who doesn't have email doesn't have to come to any wedding of mine. Actually, one of my friends had a great idea... just have a webcast--then, the location, time, people you invite, etc. is all solved. And, for the reception... just have it some where... like my house--I will buy massive amounts of chicken on a stick from Sam's club and heat them up in the oven (I love those things!).
Just my $0.02 on weddings and stuff... we'll see what happens when/if I ever get married. :p