On relationships...
So, everyone has heard of a DTR correct? As in, a Define The Relationship conversation that you might have with somebody... For example, a conversation of this sort might start with, 'Are we dating?'.
But, there is also another type of (non)conversation that people also have to consider, the DNDTNR. This stands for one of two things, not necessarily the same, but could possibly be related:
(1) Do Not Define The Non-Relationship: This means that if there is no relationship to define, there is no reason to define it--and you should not define it. Its counterpart, DTNR (define the NON-relationship) might start out with, 'Just checking that you don't want a relationship with me, because I don't want one with you.' (Sidenote, if this happens to you, your response should be, 'As if, you are soooo not all that' or 'Please, you're ugly.')
(2) Do Not Disturb The Non-Relationship: This means that you should carry on as you were, and one or more parties definitely DO NOT want a relationship--so, do not disturb it!
What else is there to learn? Well, try to be honest and open. If you are a guy asking a girl on a date, don't ask her on a date by saying, 'I hungry, you hungry, let's go eat.' Well, besides asking a question in a grammatically correct manner to impress the girl with your intelligence, you should make it clear that you want to take her out to dinner on a date, with a statement like, 'I would like to take you out on a date, possibly dinner.' Now, if you are a girl, and a nice gentleman asks you in such a manner, always be kind. (Unless the guy is creepy, then you can tell him he is creepy--but, in a nice way.) And, as a woman, you can drop several hints to a guy that you might like, and if he doesn't get it, you can say something like, 'Hey, hottie, I like you--you should ask me out.'
Is this clear to everyone? Okay, buh bye.
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